REVIEW: I have mixed
thoughts about this book. The author did
an outstanding job presenting Alex’s conflict about gender roles and
choices. I thought it was very
insightful that Ma and Alex had no conflict, it was the rest of the world that
felt the need to assign everyone to a specific designation. While the character of Ma was excellent in
how she dealt with Alex’s sexuality, I thought she was irresponsible in the
lifestyle she included Alex in, including changing school so often and extensive
lack of supervision. Keeping in mind
that this is fiction and some rules can be bent, the story line at times seemed
unrealistic. (Of course, my background
colored my reading. This story may well
resonate with others.) All that said, I
did enjoy my reading experience and wanted to keep reading to find out how
everything was resolved. In the end,
isn’t that what we want in a book - to enjoy the reading experience and maybe
gain some new or deeper understanding in the human experience? This book fulfilled that expectation. I received a complimentary copy of this book
for this review.
Characters
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Travels
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Alex – 14 when novel begins
Ma
Father
First Laura – friends with Ma, ages 9 – 12
Second Laura – group home in New Jersey, age 14
Third Laura – group home in PA, age 15
Man in car - molested Alex
Fletcher – owned Tattoo Parlor and club
Fourth Laura – artist, gave Ma Cadillac
Fifth Laura – Hood College, Maryland
Mr. Panagopoulos – Anthony’s grandfather
Anthony – from foster home, Ma sprinkled ashes in ocean
Marisol
Deceased infant daughter
Margaret-Mary Rue
Anna-Maria – daughter, ran away with Ma’s help
Simon – met Alex when he was working at Cojones, drag club
Carla – Sixth Lara, Ma’s daughter given up for adoption when she was
a teenager
Final Laura - Canada
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West Virginia – waitress
Florida - waitressing in two bars
Harrison County, Mississippi
Texas – rescued Anna-Maria
Reno -bartending
Alex attacked at school
California
Canada – end of Ma’s Quest
Alex – back to Virginia to see father
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For discussion:
NOTE: Page numbers are from hardback edition.
- Did it bother you that the first three Laura’s were presented out of order (1st, 3rd, 2nd)? Why do you think the author did that?
- In chapter VII (page 81-81), did you understand the explanation of why all the women in the stories Ma told Alex were all called Laura?
- In chapter VIII (page 93), Alex thought that “There were stories that she couldn’t tell. Everyone has then; most people pretend that they’ve been forgotten.” Do you think most people have hidden stories?
- What did you think about Ma dragging Alex with her on the Quest? Did you wonder why she didn’t leave Alex with his father?
- Discuss the long-term effect on Alex of the molestation by the man in the car while Alex was hitchhiking home from sending a post card to the father (chapter V).
- In chapter XVIII there was a story about how the mother and father differed in their approach to Alex getting in trouble (Ma yelling and then Dad taking Alex for a ride to talk and buying a milkshake). Was one more effective than the other? Did they work well together?
- Discuss how you felt about Alex and Ma as their stories unraveled. Did your thoughts and your sympathies change?
- In chapter XVIII Alex worked at Cojones, a drag club. Should Ma have been more vigilant and allowed Alex to do this?
- Who did you think the final Laura in Canada was? Any of the previous ones?
- Did the author do a good job describing Alex’s feelings of asexuality? Was that important to the story? As you were discussing or thinking about the book, did you have a hard time not referring to Alex as either “he” or “she?”
- Did the author do a good job of explaining and describing Ma’s and Alex’s restlessness? Were you able to empathize with how they felt? Given how young Alex was, do you think Ma should have been so permissive?
- The book dedication is, “To Laura, who left a hole in me.” How did you interpret this?
- Could this story have been real?
*****
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