Characters
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Clarks
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Traynors
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Louise
Parents – Josie and Bernard
Sister – Katrina and son, Thomas
Patrick – Louisa’s boyfriend
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Will
Parents – Camilla and Steven
Georgina – sister
Nathan – physical therapist
Alicia – former girlfriend
Rupert – fiancée/husband
Della – Steven’s girlfriend
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For discussion:
NOTE: Page numbers
refer to the paperback edition.
1. The author describes Lou’s style as “dressing
inventively.” How did you imagine her
looking?
2. Discuss the Clark family’s treatment of Louisa vs.
Katrina. For example, her dad called
Louisa “lardarse.”
3. When Katrina had Thomas, Louisa slept in a very small room
and gave them the larger room. When they
left for college, Louisa moved back to larger room, but Katrina thought they
should still have the larger room for when they came home. Do you agree or not? Why?
4. Discuss Camilla, Will’s mother. On page 32, the author wrote, “His mother
wouldn’t look at him as she spoke, I noticed.
She kept her gaze about ten feel away on the floor.”
a. Also, why did she keep touching her
cross necklace? This seemed like it was
foreshadowing something, but was not mentioned at the end. Why did the author mention it so often?
5. Camilla had a way of speaking that made the other party feel
inferior. Louisa said, “I wondered if
she knew that everything she said made the other person feel like an
idiot. I wondered if it was something
she actually cultivated deliberately.”
(page 120) Have you ever known
someone like that?
6. What should Alicia have done regarding her and Will’s
relationship after the accident? Can you
understand her thinking and decision?
7. When the Traynors built the annex after Will’s accident, why
did they have two steps separating it from the house? Why not a ramp? (page 109)
8. What did you think about Louisa’s mother reaction at the end
of the novel when she went to Switzerland to be with Will? Did you think she might be more supportive of
her daughter?
9. Did you like the ending, with Louisa at the café in
Paris?
10. Discuss the different reactions to the disabled by
“ordinary” vs. middle class people.
(pages 161-162) Louisa observed
that “ordinary “people “stared, smiled sympathetically, expressed sympathy or
ask...what had happened.” But
middle-class people pretended not to look but kept sneaking glances. How do you think we should react when we
encounter a handicapped person?
11. What does the title mean?
Who put themselves before someone else?
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